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BLUEPRINT TO HAPPINESS
Ever question the endless chase for promotions and raises? Another day at the office: Same routine Same goals Same feeling of going in circles This cycle can be hypnotizing, leaving us wondering why we’re even on this treadmill. Constantly chasing a future that always seems just out of reach. Isn’t it time to ask ourselves:…
Read More DEFINE YOURSELF, DEFINE SUCCESS
Who are you? This isn’t about your job or title. I’ll go first: Born in Western MD Always drawn to teams, from sports to the military Married with two beautiful kids I believe we must elevate ourselves to better lead our teams The more I learn, the more I realize there’s so much more to…
Read More EFFECTIVE LEADERSHIP AND EMBRACING UNCERTAINTY
Here’s why it’s a mistake to believe that certainty is the key to effective leadership. In fact, the first half of my career groomed me to think this way: Demanding expertise. Upholding self-reliance. Reluctant to ask for help. Never admitting ignorance. Insisting on knowing all the answers. But what if embracing uncertainty and relinquishing the…
Read More EMOTIONS AND RESILIENCE
Reflecting on your emotions isn’t always easy, but it’s a game-changer for growth. Here’s how leaning into your emotions can fuel your development: Use unease as a cue for potential personal and professional development. Dive into the reasons behind your emotional reactions to discover and change habitual patterns. Accepting vulnerability can open new paths for…
Read More PLAY YOUR OWN GAME
Are you playing your own game or getting lost in someone else’s? Compete with yourself, not the world. Play your own game. Here are 4 reasons: Embracing self-competition propels personal growth. It shifts focus from external benchmarks to internal progress. You avoid the exhausting race of constantly comparing with others. It nurtures a mindset of…
Read More DO YOU HAVE A SIDE BUSINESS?
Is a side business just about extra cash, or is it a gateway to personal and professional transformation? Beyond extra income, side businesses: 1. Offer a platform for self-reflection and realignment with one’s Blueprint. 2. Are integral to career and personal development. 3. Can complement and enhance overall performance at your primary job. A side…
Read More IS THE FAMILIAR PATH HOLDING YOU BACK?
Is the familiar path holding you back? Common sayings like: “This has always worked before.” “We’ve always done it this way.” “I must be doing something right.” …might be comfort zones limiting our growth. Progress demands evolving strategies and mindsets. What worked in the past might not fit the future. Adaptability is key. When did…
Read More SHIFT INTO YOUR BLUEPRINT
Been leading teams for years and now wondering why what used to work no longer does? A thinking shift might help. Shift to: Believe you can learn new things. Cultivate your desire to learn. Take action on what you learn. As we shift our perspectives, we unlock the potential for unprecedented growth. What recent shift…
Read More THE EXPERTISE TRAP
The expertise trap: when new skills aren’t enough. Does this sound familiar? I’ve mastered my craft I’ve achieved success at the highest level Rinse and repeat for continued success Suddenly, you’re in a role and level of responsibility that’s entirely new. Like a fish out of water, what worked before no longer does. You’re at…
Read More LOSE THE FOMO
Know your Blueprint. Lose the FOMO. Own your journey. FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) can derail even the most driven among us. You see peers: Climbing the ladder of success (society-defined) Attending conferences Closing deals It’s easy to wonder, “Why haven’t I done that yet?” But here’s the game-changer: Your Blueprint. When you’re laser-focused on…
Read More WHEN YOUR DEFAULT PLAYER IS THE WRONG ONE
What happens when your default ‘player’ is the wrong one for the game? Here’s a lesson I learned. About three months ago, I faced an unavoidable interpersonal conflict. My initial instinct was to resolve the situation by restoring harmony-a huge part of my Blueprint. Upon reflection, I realized there were other players to consider: Assessment…
Read More ARE YOU FEELING STUCK?
3 pieces of advice that sound great but leave you feeling stuck (and how you can get unstuck). Ever heard any of these in some form or another? Design your ideal life Create your vision Live with intention Great advice, but it leaves a critical question unanswered: Where do I start? Blueprint discovery and application.…
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